A first step for what's in your way
The tool picks the first step for the first thing you tick. Here they all are, so you can use them without the tool. In each, “room” is the room you chose.
- Too much to do: Clear one surface in the room.
- Don't know where to start: Put away 10 things.
- Boring: Put on one song and tidy the room until it ends.
- Tired: Pick up 5 things in the room, then stop if you want to.
- No one will notice: Tidy the one spot in the room you see most.
Nothing ticked? Then it is: Set the timer and tidy the room until it rings.
Why a small start helps
If cleaning feels unpleasant
Research on putting tasks off speaks to tasks that feel unpleasant. Two researchers argue that procrastination, which often happens with tasks people find unpleasant, has a lot to do with feeling better in the short term, and that its costs usually fall on our future self. A 2007 review that pooled 691 correlations found procrastination strongly and consistently linked to, among other things, how unpleasant a task feels, how confident you are that you can do it, and impulsiveness. These are links, not proof of cause. A first step that takes 5 minutes asks for very little of your future self, and nothing says you must keep going afterwards.
An if-then plan for the sticking point
A 2006 meta-analysis of 94 independent tests found that implementation intentions, plans that link a set situation to a set action (if this situation comes up, then I will do that), had a positive effect of medium-to-large size on reaching goals (d = .65). Gollwitzer and Sheeran's 2006 meta-analysis found that if-then plans helped people get started on a goal and protected their progress from unwanted influences. Your card ends with one of these plans: “If [what gets in the way], then I will [your first step].”
Make the room the unit, not the house
One room, one surface, one handful of things. When the 5 minutes are up and you want a longer list, the house cleaning checklist fits tasks to the time you have, and the cleaning schedule spreads them across the week.
When to talk to a GP
Two pieces of NHS advice on when to see a GP:
In the UK
- If you have symptoms of depression, such as continuous low mood or sadness, most of the day, every day, for more than 2 weeks, the NHS advises seeing a GP (UK).
- The NHS lists finding it hard to organise your time or finish tasks among the signs of ADHD in adults, which usually start before age 12. If such things affect your studies, work or relationships, it advises seeing a GP, who may also consider other conditions that could cause them (UK).
What happens to what you type
Your room and your step stay in this browser and are never sent anywhere.
Related tools
- House cleaning checklist: a list for the rooms you pick, sized to the time you have
- Cleaning schedule: daily, weekly and monthly jobs on a week grid
- Declutter checklist: when the problem is too much stuff, a little each day
- How to get motivated: the same 5-minute start for anything else you want to get going on
- How to stop procrastinating: start one task you keep putting off
If you need help now
These tools are for everyday habits. They are not a crisis service. If you are struggling or don't feel safe, you can contact:
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (US): call or text 988, or chat online. Free and confidential, 24/7.
Emergency services (911)
US: call 911 if you or someone you know is in immediate harm or danger.
Samaritans
Samaritans (UK and Ireland): call 116 123, free, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.
Emergency services (999 or A&E) · NHS 111, mental health option
England (NHS): call 999 or go to A&E now if someone's life is at risk or you do not feel you can keep yourself or someone else safe. If you need urgent help for your mental health, call 111 and choose the mental health option; NHS 111 online is available in England only, and Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland have their own services.
Elsewhere, call your local emergency number.
Sources
- Steel P (2007). The nature of procrastination: a meta-analytic and theoretical review of quintessential self-regulatory failure. Psychological Bulletin 133:65–94. PMID 17201571
- Sirois F, Pychyl T (2013). Procrastination and the Priority of Short-Term Mood Regulation: Consequences for Future Self. Social and Personality Psychology Compass 7(2):115–127. eprints.whiterose.ac.uk
- Gollwitzer PM, Sheeran P (2006). Implementation intentions and goal achievement: a meta-analysis of effects and processes. Advances in Experimental Social Psychology 38:69–119. kops.uni-konstanz.de
- Symptoms — Depression in adults. NHS. nhs.uk
- ADHD in adults. NHS. nhs.uk
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. 988lifeline.org
- Contact Us. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. 988lifeline.org
- Contact a Samaritan. Samaritans. samaritans.org
- Where to get urgent help for mental health. NHS. nhs.uk
- Get help for your symptoms. NHS 111. 111.nhs.uk
- When to use NHS 111 online or call 111. NHS. nhs.uk